Horary Astrology: Free Readings – “Should I Contact My Ex-Partner?”

August 1, 2007 by  

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Horary Astrology Question:

I had a very sexually and emotionally intense relationship with a man about 15 years ago. We were together for about 2 years, and just before we broke up, I miscarried his baby (but he didn’t know I was pregnant, and I never told him I lost the baby). Shortly after that, the relationship ended abruptly with him breaking up with me because, in his words, “I don’t love you because I don’t know what love is.” And yet, I know he did. And my suspicion is that he broke up with me because he DID love me and was terrified by it.

But 15 years have passed, we haven’t spoken in about 10 years, and we live thousands of miles apart now, but I still feel this man “with” me all the time. And every once and a while, I hear from an old mutual friend who will, in the course of our conversation, tell me what’s going on this man’s life – and every time she does, I already know it.

Lately, I have been considering getting in touch with him to tell him about that long ago pregnancy in the hopes that finally telling him will help resolve the relationship for me, and perhaps for him as well. But, I’m also worried about opening that wound again, so to speak, and stirring up something that should just be left alone.

So, my basic question is should I contact him to tell him this or not?

—K.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear K.,

Thank you for writing to me. I think this is where horary is so helpful – we can understand what is going on with others. To me, this is even more valuable than knowing what the future will bring. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the horoscope is below:

contactex Horary Astrology: Free Readings – “Should I Contact My Ex Partner?”

The first question is whether this feeling is mutual, or whether it’s something going on only on your end. In his horoscope, you are represented by Mars in Taurus and by the Moon in Pisces. He is represented by Venus, ruler of your seventh house of partners, and by the Sun. I am afraid that your strong bond is one-sided, for a few reasons. First, we see that with Mars in Taurus, you are strongly interested in what is going on with him, and you still do love him. The problem is that Mars is conjunct the fixed star Algol, which can represent us losing our heads. So it’s as though your strong feelings for him are making you blind to the truth of the situation.

With the Moon in Pisces, we see that you are emotionally putting him on a pedestal, as the Moon is in the exaltation of Venus. So you are very much engaged with him on an emotional level as well. My concern is that neither of those planets, Venus and the Sun, reciprocate. Venus is currently in Virgo, where it is not interested in either Mars or the Moon, and the Sun is in Leo, which tells a similar story. So we see that at the moment, he is not thinking of you.  You had also asked about possibilities for the future, specifically if you were to contact him.

Venus is about to move into Leo, indicating some kind of a change of conditions for him. However, even in Leo, Venus is not very interested in Mars or the Moon, so I am not sure that contacting him would somehow reignite his heart. If anything, it may bring more pain into his life, and perhaps the kinder decision would be to leave the subject alone.

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Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “When Will He Propose?”

July 30, 2007 by  

marriageproposal Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “When Will He Propose?”

Horary Astrology Question:

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. We’d always talked about after graduating college we’d live together, and possibly marry, etc. Now we’re both in our last year, and I’ve noticed he’s become overcome with anxiety. I don’t know if it’s towards me, or what, but he has changed considerably. He’s become more withdrawn, cold, and less “open” with me, I don’t know if this is him just maturing into a different person or what. Either way, I love him to death, and I’m sure the feeling is mutual. Will our plans ever come true for us?

—E.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear M.,

Thank you for writing to me. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the horoscope is below:

whenpropose Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “When Will He Propose?”

In this horoscope, you are shown by the ruler of the first house of self, Mars, while your feelings are shown by the Moon. He is symbolized by Venus, ruler of the seventh house of partners, and his urge to find a mate is shown by the Sun. Now, the main challenge that you face is his recent seeming loss of interest in you. This is indicated by the Sun having moved from Cancer into Leo recently, and also by Venus moving from Leo into Virgo. The problem is that in the signs, neither of those planets seem very interested in you. It may be that his hormones are telling him that a committed relationship is not what he should want at this time. When the Sun was in Cancer, we saw that he was attached to you emotionally. With its recent move into Leo, he has become interested primarily in listening to his hormones.

So the question shouldn’t really be when he will propose, but rather what is going on with him. Despite his recent change of heart, I still think there is a good chance that the two of you will eventually get married. However, I think it will take some time, probably one to two years. This is indicated by the Moon’s applying to the Sun by trine aspect, and by Saturn collecting the light from Mars, and eventually its conjunction with Venus. I think the situation will move more slowly than you would like, but your relationship should survive.

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Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “Will He Leave Her to Marry Me?”

July 17, 2007 by  

lovingcup Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “Will He Leave Her to Marry Me?”

Horary Astrology Question:

Will he leave her in the next year to marry me? He says he’s in an unhappy relationship and I’m the right one for him but at the wrong time. We tried to date on the side but it did not work. I don’t talk to him anymore. But I still want to know if I’ll ever be with him again.

—Y.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear Y.,

Thank you for writing to me. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the horoscope is below:

willhecomebackmarryme Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “Will He Leave Her to Marry Me?”

In this horoscope, you are represented by the Sun, ruler of the first house of self. Your emotions are shown by the Moon, while the man in question is shown by Saturn, ruler of your seventh house of partners. We will look at how these planets interact to determine how he feels about you, and also what is likely to happen between you two in the future.

We see that his planet, Saturn, is in Leo, where it is ruled by the Sun, which represents you. So I do think that he is genuine when he says that you truly cares for you. However, we can also see that you have been heartbroken about this, and you feel somewhat ambivalent about having a relationship with him. We can see this because of the Sun being in Cancer, where it is in the detriment of Saturn. You’re really not happy about him at the moment!

We see evidence of his primary relationship in this horoscope as well; his planet, Saturn, is conjunct Venus. With both planets in Leo, we see that his attraction to you hangs heavy over their relationship. However, I do not see him leaving this woman in the near future, so if I were you, I would recommend moving on. It may be that you will find a new relationship soon as well, perhaps someone else from the past. We see this because of the Sun applying to a conjunction with Mercury, and it seems that this is a much more constructive use of your time than worrying about someone who doesn’t seem motivated enough to change.

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Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “Has My Wife Bewitched Me?”

July 11, 2007 by  

virgilius Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “Has My Wife Bewitched Me?”

Horary Astrology Question:

Before I found out about the deceitful life she had been living under my nose, I was having, it seemed, mountains of bad luck. In 2006 all the lies and deceit came to light and every since then my luck has gotten worse, it seems. Also, everytime I try to leave her, something in the pit of my stomach makes me feel sorry for her and I return. Could this be some type of spell working on me?

—K.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear K.,

Thank you for writing to me. Horary astrology is excellent at determining whether you have been bewitched. Though, just to put this in perspective, only about 10 or 15% of my clients who asked this question have actually had a spell cast on them. Most of us simply do not have occult enemies. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the horoscope is below:

haswifebewitchedme Horary Astrology: Free Astrology Readings – “Has My Wife Bewitched Me?”

In his horoscope, you are represented by Venus, ruler of the first house, and also by the Moon, which is your co-ruler. Any witchcraft performed upon you by your wife is represented by the 12th house of witches, and its ruler, Mercury. The first thing we notice is that Mercury is in Cancer, where it is ruled by the Moon. So your wife is actually in your power, strong evidence against you having been bewitched. We do see a separating trine between the Moon and Mercury, but without your wife’s being able to influence you (note that our planet is in a cadent house, from where it cannot act), I don’t think she is capable of putting anything on you.

We also do not see your planets having been afflicted in any way, and we do not see the same planet ruling the 12th and first houses, which is considered prime testimony of witchcraft. To sum up, no, I do not believe your wife has bewitched you.

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Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will We Reunite?

June 7, 2007 by  

proposalmarriage Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will We Reunite?

Horary Question:

I was in an emotionally involved and intense relationship with my co-worker. It started pretty much out of the blue, just like it ended (last month). And I know without a shadow of doubt she wants to save us from getting hurt by each other in the long term. I guess it was a learning experience for both of us, as we basically have a lot in common in fundamental things, many hopes and dreams, strong feelings, a seriousness to work on this relationship, but also the wrong attitude from the start.

She is the strongest woman I ever met, a true Catholic, successful in her TV journalism career, but she does better in her career than in her love life. And I’m much the opposite, trying to get my career and life together. I suspect that some other factors, rather than the emotions we felt, played a role in things ending up this way, whether they were in our working enviroment or life in general. It’s merely my intuition that she’s not confident about separation, and I’d like to know what you see? So, will we be back together again?

—T.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear T.,

Thanks for writing to me; relationships can be so complicated sometimes. I cast a horary chart for the moment I understood your question. The horoscope for the horary is below:

willwereunite Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will We Reunite?

You are represented by the Lord of the first house, the Moon, and your male urge to find a mate (physical and psychological) is shown by the Sun. Your girlfriend is represented by the ruler of the 7th house, Saturn, and her need to pair up is shown by Venus. We will take a look at how these planets relate to one another to see how each of you feel, and also whether the opportunity to get together will present itself.

She is obviously very attracted to you, at least on a physical level. Both of her planets, Saturn and Venus, are in Leo, where they are dominated by the Sun, the planet symbolizing your male appeal, whether she is just looking for a lover or some guy to marry. Venus just left Cancer, where it was in Saturn’s detriment and the Moon’s sign. She liked you a lot, but this was causing her some problems. In either case, she is not very interested in you as a person, so we would not expect a lasting, profound relationship based on this.

Now, let’s see what is going on with you. Your main planet, the Moon, is in Aquarius, where it is dominated by Saturn, her planet. So you are in love with her, but I think a big part of that love is that you are not exactly happy with your life, and expect her to make you happy. Physically, as indicated by the Sun, you like her well enough, but are not head over heels, either. My sense so far is that this might work as a no-strings-attached physical relationship, but there is not enough emotional “glue” to make it last.

I suspect that there were external influences in play here, just as you say. Note that Mercury afflicts the Arabian Part of Marriage by opposition. Now, Mercury does not necessarily have to be a third party – it rules your 12th house of self-undoing, so perhaps it indicates some kind of relationship sabotage on your part – or her 9th house of religion and long-distance travel. Whatever this Mercury is, it ruptured a relationship that was already mutually ambivalent.

So, will the two of you get back together? Sun will sextile Saturn, which would indicate at least a short-term reunion. But there are obstacles: the Sun runs into Mars first, which would indicate that the reunion will not happen due to Mars reasons. Mars can mean sex (you find someone more attractive), your job (Mars rules your 10th), her friends (Mars rules her 11th house of friends), etc. In any case, something gets in the way, and this something will be positive for you, but not so positive for her. It may well mean a new person of interest in your life.

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Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will We Be Together Soon?

June 5, 2007 by  

meetingingarden Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will We Be Together Soon?

Horary Question:

I met the love of my life last April 2006. He came here to the Philippines last March 17 to April 17 to be with me and asked my hand for marriage from my family. I fell in love with him even more. Ever since he came back to the US, we planned on being together again. I miss him so much and all we hope is that everything would go well with the papers for me to be able to go where my baby is and so we could be together and spend our lives with each other. I love him so much and I miss him more and more each day.

Will we have any problems with the process for us to be together? Will I be with him anytime soon within this year or early next year?

—G.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear G.,

Thank you for writing to me. I can certainly understand your anxiety and uncertainty about the situation. I cast the horoscope for the moment that I understood your question, which is a method known as horary astrology. The horary chart for your question is below:

willwebetogether Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will We Be Together Soon?

You are shown by the Moon, ruler of the first house of self, while your fiancé is ruled by the seventh house, and its ruler, Saturn. There will be a lot of twists and turns in the process, but I do believe that the two of you will be together. We see that your planet, the Moon, will shortly square Mars. The Sun meanwhile will oppose Jupiter and then will sextile Mars. The Sun will later sextile Saturn, finishing this bucket brigade, and connecting the Moon to Saturn in the process.

Does this seem slightly convoluted? It certainly is, but the immigration process is neither quick nor simple, and this being passed from one planet to the next is a good analogy for the different stages in the process you will have to go through before moving to the US permanently with your fiancé. There’s really no reason why you would not receive your papers eventually, so I think it’s just a question of how complicated the process will be and how long it will take. Timing the events arising from a tangle of aspects like this seems near impossible, but we can certainly try.

The Moon will square Mars in about 2°, which would give us two months. Then, the Sun will sextile Saturn in about 7°. This would give us seven months. Since the Sun is in a double sign, I would be inclined to call it eight or nine months, and adding the two gives us something like 10 or 11 months from the time of the question. So I would expect you to be in the US with your fiancé inside of a year. In the meantime, be patient, as the process can be somewhat frustrating and nerve-racking. Good luck!

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Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Is He the One?

May 29, 2007 by  

love Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Is He the One?

Horary Question:

I am 37 years old, and had a 4 year whirlwind live-in relationship with a guy 4 years my senior. We are very compatible on the sexual level, but both emotionally immature. Our split 3 years ago was very acrimonious. Both families got involved and his family was very one-sided. My family was much more neutral.

Part of our attraction is our differences; my family is bohemian and money poor. I am of mixed race where his is white English. He was educated privately. I never felt comfortable with his family, which has lots of unspoken rules for conduct and I suspect not comfortable with people of colour in the closer ranks.

I instigated a meet up after no contact at all these last years, and have started seeing him again, and of course sex is fantastic because I want him with my body and soul.

After 6 meetings I am getting impatient with him, but we are able to talk about things we couldn’t before. Turns out he has a new girlfriend of two years, that he says he loves. He has taken her to meet his parental home and been to France with her to meet her family. So he must be serious about this girl, at least until I came back on the scene. He says I turn him on like no other and that the sex they have is not as good. She is good for him on other levels and he calls her ‘excellent really.’

I want to end seeing him while he is in a new relationship, I don’t want to be the obstruction or excuse for him not being emotionally available to the next girl. It is difficult to stay at arms’ length, because my bio clock is ticking, I yearn for him. He tells me that he wants to be with me, but afraid of (his words) divorcing a lot of people, who were there for him, when we split, and to be disenfranchised again. These are real concerns and risks to consider.

What are the real chances of us succeeding as a couple?

—E.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear E.,

Thank you for writing to me, and wow, what a saga. As always, I cast a horoscope for the time that I understood your question, a method called horary astrology. The horoscope for your question is below:

ishetheone Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Is He the One?

You obviously think the world of this guy. Two of your three significators, Mercury and Venus, are in the exaltation of Jupiter. Since Jupiter rules your seventh house of partners, we know you’re putting him on a pedestal. With Jupiter in its own sign, even though it is retrograde, he is probably rather pedestal-worthy, whether in appearance or overall good personality. The only problem with his planet being in its own sign, is that it is rather uninterested in anything but its own needs. This does not mean he doesn’t care for you, as we will soon see, but I would like to see him put himself out a bit more on your behalf.

With his co-significator, the Sun, in Gemini, we see that he is very physically attracted to you, and in an ideal world, he would marry you. However, this is not enough to actually motivate him to do so. His girlfriend is one obstacle; he does care for her a good amount, though not as much as you, and she thinks the world of him. She is indicated by Saturn in Leo, the sign of the Sun.

To see whether the two of you would actually get married or have some kind of permanent relationship, we need to see if any of your planets in his planets will meet. Unfortunately, there are no upcoming aspects between your planets and his, so I am concerned that a marriage or similar exclusive relationship would not happen. I was hoping that there is some kind of third party who can be of assistance. Specifically, we would want to see Mercury (you) aspect Mars (a third party), and Mars would then aspect Jupiter (your guy). This would bring your planets and his together by the mediation of another person. The problem is that Mercury is moving very slowly, and Mercury will not aspect Mars before the latter trines Saturn. So I am afraid the other woman is going to whisk him out from under your nose, mainly because your guy does not want to do anything hasty or risky (in his mind).

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Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?

May 18, 2007 by  

awakeningofheart Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?

Horary Question:

I am about to be proposed to by a wonderful man, who cares for me and who loves me very much. He does everything for me, and he is a perfect person. I care for him very much, and I can grow to love him. However, I am in love with someone else, someone I had dated previously. The person I am in love with has many influences that affect his behavior – when we are together, everything is perfect, when we are not, he questions his feelings (I am positive that his family members played a significant role in pulling us apart). Everything was going great for several years, but then for a few months, times were difficult for the both of us, misunderstandings happened, communication was bad, and he said he wanted to take a break. I don’t know what to do.

I believe that we are perfect for each other, and that we can work this out. Will this break be for good? I want to be with him, but if we will definitely not be together, then I will say yes to the man who is about to propose. If there is a chance that the person I love and I will be together, then I will not say yes. I don’t know what to do. Should I wait for the person who I am in love with, or should I say yes to the one who is about to propose?

—S.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear S.,

Why does true love have to be so complicated? If I ran the world, everyone would live happily ever after with their soulmate. But I don’t run things, so instead, I ran a horary chart for the time I understood your question. The horoscope for your question is below:

mrrightcomeback Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?

You are ruled by the ruler of the first house of self, Venus. We see that Venus is in the sign of the Moon, Cancer, and in the triplicity and detriment of Mars. Mars rules your seventh house of partners, and since you kind of like Mars, but overall you sort of dislike it, it must symbolize the guy who is about to propose to you. He is certainly marriage minded, and he has decided to pursue that with you. His significator, Mars, has just moved into the exaltation of the Sun. The Sun is one’s urge to find a mate; obviously, finding a wife is foremost on his mind. He is certainly ready to march up to the altar with you. Too bad you do not love him.

The Moon, which symbolizes your emotions, is in Gemini, where it is most interested in Mercury. Mercury must be the man with whom you’re in love. Mercury, at the moment, is most interested in himself. It is in its own sign and triplicity, so I am concerned that he is not nearly as interested in you as you are in him. Still, the Moon and Mercury are applying to conjunction, indicating an upcoming opportunity to renew the relationship. The problem is that even renewed, it’s not going to have a lot of lasting power, since he is not that deeply interested in you. But I think you will need to experience that for yourself.

So what to do? Marrying one guy while pining over another will leave you forever wondering how it would have been had you not done so. I suggest putting the potential husband on the back burner, at least ask him to wait, and let the situation with your true love play itself out. Give yourself a hard time limit, say six months, and stick to it. If Mr. Right doesn’t come back during that time, you will need to move on.

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Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Leave Husband for Lover?

May 15, 2007 by  

loveatfirstsight Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Leave Husband for Lover?

Horary Question:

I have been married to a lovely man for only a year. We have been together 4 years, living together over 2 years. I can’t say that we’ve always had a fantastic relationship but he is very kind, caring, generous, he would never betray me or cheat on me. We both work long hours in stressful jobs. We got married & I came off the pill just before we wed so that we could try for a baby straightaway. We had a fabulous honeymoon & we were very happy. But when we came back from honeymoon, we didn’t make love for 2 months! He wanted a baby just as much as me. My self esteem dropped to nothing. I tried talking to him, screaming at him, writing him letters but he always just said he was tired. I met a man just as a friend & confidant, however, that has led to an affair. My husband did start paying me more attention around Christmas time but by then, I had fallen for this other man.

I am now nearly 5 months pregnant with a little girl. My husband & I are thrilled to bits but he agrees that things didn’t exactly come as they should’ve. I cannot end my affair. I do not know what to do. My husband isn’t the man I married but at the same time, I am not sure if I have changed too. I don’t want to be divorced after only a year. I wanted to be married only once & be married to my husband forever. I meant every word of my vows but I cannot believe how much things change in such a short space of time. I love my husband but I am in love with the other man. He is fine with my pregnancy too. Please give me helpful advice. I am in a complete rut. I don’t want to give up my chance of total happiness (which I believe I may have with this other man) but I also only want what’s best for my darling baby.

My main priority in life now is this growing little girl inside me. I cannot describe the love that I already feel for her. She is my world & I will do whatever I think will be best for her, regardless of whether it’s best for me or not.

—C.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear C.,

I am sorry to hear about your predicament. For some reason, I have been getting a lot of questions recently from women who are concerned that their husband has suddenly changed and withdrawn, for no apparent reason. It is quite strange and sad. I cast a horary chart for your question, the picture of which is below:

leavehusbandforlover Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Leave Husband for Lover?

First off, regardless of the trials and difficulties that may arise, everything will turn out okay. This is because the very benefic fixed star Spica is conjunct the ascendant, which symbolizes you in this horoscope. It’s like there’s a protective hand over you.

In this horoscope, you are represented by Venus, ruler of the first house of self, and your co-significator is the Moon in Aries. Your husband is represented by the ruler of the seventh house of partners, Mars. We see that Venus has entered the sign of Cancer not too long ago, where it is in the sign of Mars’s fall, indicating that you harm or dislike whatever Mars represents. Given the difficulties in your relationship with your husband, this seems rather accurate. The Moon is currently in Aries, the sign ruled by Mars, indicating they still have strong positive feelings for your husband. However, the Moon is about to enter Taurus, where it is in the detriment of Mars, so your feelings for your husband are about to deteriorate.

I think it will be similar with your husband. His planet, Mars, is currently in Pisces, where it exalts Venus, your planet. This means that he loves you a great deal and puts you on something of a pedestal. However, Mars will enter Aries shortly, where it will be in the detriment of Venus. The bigger concern is that Mars will enter the fall of Saturn, which represents your baby, as Saturn rules your fifth house of children. So your husband’s bad attitude toward you will reflect negatively on your child. I am concerned that your relationship with your husband is going to get worse, not better.

The other man is likely represented by the Sun; it is in the sign of Venus, and the exaltation of the Moon, showing his deep feelings for you. You feel similarly, and we see that the Moon exalts the Sun. However, your main significator, Venus, does not appear as interested in the Sun as your emotions. The Moon will shortly enter Taurus, and exit the exaltation of the Sun altogether. I suspect that this means that your relationship with your husband may come to an end, but I am not sure that you will want a relationship with this other man. It’s as though once you have let go of the relationship with your husband, this other man will seem less appealing.

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Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will He Leave His Wife for Me?

May 9, 2007 by  

between2fires Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will He Leave His Wife for Me?

Horary Question:

H and I have been seeing each other for 4 months. We met while he was doing construction on the company I work for. We had a connection from the start. We went out one night and he told me that he was not the type of person to cheat on his wife. (he’s been married for a year and they dated for 6 years prior). He said that there was something about me, though. Two weeks later he tells me he’s fallen in love with me. He’s a very kind, loyal, loving man. He’s everything I could ever want.

His wife has problems carrying children, she’s had 2 miscarriages in a previous marriage at 5 months and 8 months. He’s unsure if she can have them. He really wants children. He is 33 and she is 39. I am 29. I am one hundred percent in love with him.

According to him, his wife is good to him. He says he loves his wife, but that she is not me. That I am special. He tells me I am in his future, but if he were to leave right now he would have nothing to offer me. all finances are in her name, all property in her name. I told him I don’t care about money, but he says that he wants to be able to provide. So my question is, will he leave her for me if I am patient? Our connnection is so real, it’s amazing. I can’t imagine anything more amazing than this feeling in life. He says he’s never felt this way, even with his wife, although, he says he does love her…he wouldn’t have married her if he didn’t.

—M.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear M.,

Thanks for writing to me. These situations are never easy or simple, are they? As always, I cast a horoscope for the time that I understood your question, a method known as horary astrology. The horary horoscope for your question is below:

leavhiswifeforme Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will He Leave His Wife for Me?

In this chart, you are shown by Venus, ruler of the first house of self. Your feelings in the situation are represented by the Moon. H. is symbolized by Mars, ruler of your seventh house of partners, and his sexual side is shown by the Sun.

We see that H. is very much interested in you, both sexually and rationally, as Mars is in the exaltation of Venus and the Sun is in the sign of Venus. I do think he is sincere when he tells you he is in love with you. Of course, people don’t necessarily leave their marriages just because they love the other person more; there are very often other elements in play, such as the financial obligations you mentioned.

For your part, I suspect that his being tied to his wife has started to bother you a lot recently. I noticed that Mars, his significator, is in the sign ruled by Jupiter; since he says he loves his wife, she may well be represented by Jupiter. We also see that you are significator, Venus, has recently entered the sign of Cancer, where it exalts Jupiter. Both of you are obviously in his wife’s power. You have definitely been getting restless about the situation, since Venus is now in the fall of Mars, indicating that you are somehow harming him, or obsessing about this.

To see whether the two of you will ever be together, we want to see in aspect between your planets and his. Unfortunately, we do not really see that happening in the chart. The Moon’s next aspect will be a sextile to Jupiter, indicating that his wife will prevent your relationship from continuing. I am also concerned that this relationship may become more physical than anything else; Mars is about to move into Aries, where it is in the detriment of Venus, and the exaltation of the Sun. I think some of the love he has for you may wane, though not his sexual attraction to you. Finally, we see that the Sun will shortly oppose the Moon by antiscion, indicating a hidden separation; this would be fitting to show the end of a secret affair.

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