Free Astrology Reading: Horary Astrology – “Will I Remarry?”
October 9, 2007 by Nina Gryphon
Horary Astrology Question:
I have been single for a long time, after my divorce. My ex was emotionally abusive and abused alcohol. It has taken me a long time to learn to trust men again and realize that there are good guys out there. My two sons are now adults and it is time for me to find some happiness in my life. Will I find a man to fall in love with and marry?
From what people tell me, it’s not always easy for women over 40 to find Mr. Right, with the pool of male candidates of that age having shrunk dramatically due to marriage, too many hamburgers, and fast driving. But we can’t assume anything; as my teacher, John Frawley, says: “It is not we who know, it is the Astrology that knows.”
I cast a horary chart for the time I understood your question, and this horoscope is below:
The good news is that there aren’t many factors against you getting married; we don’t see the kinds of dreadful afflictions to your significators that outright deny marriage. That said, in these kinds of questions, the older the person is, the stronger the testimonies must be to overcome the odds.
My concern in this chart is that you still don’t seem to be in the right frame of mind to have a constructive relationship with someone. As you say, this seems to be due to your negative past relationship, which must have been quite scarring emotionally. Your emotions, symbolized by the Moon, are still anti-relationship at this time. The Moon is in Virgo, the fall of Venus, which rules the seventh house of partners. The Moon’s most recent aspect was a conjunction to Saturn, which most likely represents your leaving this harmful marriage.
Also, right in line with what you said, you do seem to have some fear left over from the past, which makes it difficult to pursue relationships. The ruler of your first house of self is Mars in Cancer, placed in the eighth house of fear. Mars is very weak in Cancer, which is the sign of its fall. And due to Mars is placement in Cancer, we see that you are very much driven by your emotions right now…and how are your emotions? They are not really receptive to a partner at this time.
My sense is that you are jumping the gun a little bit in looking for a husband before you are ready to do so emotionally. I believe it can happen for you, as I don’t see major negatives against it, other than what’s going on with your emotions. However, it has been a long time since the divorce, and you are still scarred by your abusive marriage, so it may be a good time to get some emotional support/guidance so you can move forward constructively.