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Horary Astrology Question:

Will he leave her in the next year to marry me? He says he’s in an unhappy relationship and I’m the right one for him but at the wrong time. We tried to date on the side but it did not work. I don’t talk to him anymore. But I still want to know if I’ll ever be with him again.

—Y.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear Y.,

Thank you for writing to me. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the horoscope is below:

In this horoscope, you are represented by the Sun, ruler of the first house of self. Your emotions are shown by the Moon, while the man in question is shown by Saturn, ruler of your seventh house of partners. We will look at how these planets interact to determine how he feels about you, and also what is likely to happen between you two in the future.

We see that his planet, Saturn, is in Leo, where it is ruled by the Sun, which represents you. So I do think that he is genuine when he says that you truly cares for you. However, we can also see that you have been heartbroken about this, and you feel somewhat ambivalent about having a relationship with him. We can see this because of the Sun being in Cancer, where it is in the detriment of Saturn. You’re really not happy about him at the moment!

We see evidence of his primary relationship in this horoscope as well; his planet, Saturn, is conjunct Venus. With both planets in Leo, we see that his attraction to you hangs heavy over their relationship. However, I do not see him leaving this woman in the near future, so if I were you, I would recommend moving on. It may be that you will find a new relationship soon as well, perhaps someone else from the past. We see this because of the Sun applying to a conjunction with Mercury, and it seems that this is a much more constructive use of your time than worrying about someone who doesn’t seem motivated enough to change.

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