Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Leave Husband for Lover?
May 15, 2007 by admin
Horary Question:
I have been married to a lovely man for only a year. We have been together 4 years, living together over 2 years. I can’t say that we’ve always had a fantastic relationship but he is very kind, caring, generous, he would never betray me or cheat on me. We both work long hours in stressful jobs. We got married & I came off the pill just before we wed so that we could try for a baby straightaway. We had a fabulous honeymoon & we were very happy. But when we came back from honeymoon, we didn’t make love for 2 months! He wanted a baby just as much as me. My self esteem dropped to nothing. I tried talking to him, screaming at him, writing him letters but he always just said he was tired. I met a man just as a friend & confidant, however, that has led to an affair. My husband did start paying me more attention around Christmas time but by then, I had fallen for this other man.
I am now nearly 5 months pregnant with a little girl. My husband & I are thrilled to bits but he agrees that things didn’t exactly come as they should’ve. I cannot end my affair. I do not know what to do. My husband isn’t the man I married but at the same time, I am not sure if I have changed too. I don’t want to be divorced after only a year. I wanted to be married only once & be married to my husband forever. I meant every word of my vows but I cannot believe how much things change in such a short space of time. I love my husband but I am in love with the other man. He is fine with my pregnancy too. Please give me helpful advice. I am in a complete rut. I don’t want to give up my chance of total happiness (which I believe I may have with this other man) but I also only want what’s best for my darling baby.
My main priority in life now is this growing little girl inside me. I cannot describe the love that I already feel for her. She is my world & I will do whatever I think will be best for her, regardless of whether it’s best for me or not.
—C.
Nina Gryphon:
Dear C.,
I am sorry to hear about your predicament. For some reason, I have been getting a lot of questions recently from women who are concerned that their husband has suddenly changed and withdrawn, for no apparent reason. It is quite strange and sad. I cast a horary chart for your question, the picture of which is below:
First off, regardless of the trials and difficulties that may arise, everything will turn out okay. This is because the very benefic fixed star Spica is conjunct the ascendant, which symbolizes you in this horoscope. It’s like there’s a protective hand over you.
In this horoscope, you are represented by Venus, ruler of the first house of self, and your co-significator is the Moon in Aries. Your husband is represented by the ruler of the seventh house of partners, Mars. We see that Venus has entered the sign of Cancer not too long ago, where it is in the sign of Mars’s fall, indicating that you harm or dislike whatever Mars represents. Given the difficulties in your relationship with your husband, this seems rather accurate. The Moon is currently in Aries, the sign ruled by Mars, indicating they still have strong positive feelings for your husband. However, the Moon is about to enter Taurus, where it is in the detriment of Mars, so your feelings for your husband are about to deteriorate.
I think it will be similar with your husband. His planet, Mars, is currently in Pisces, where it exalts Venus, your planet. This means that he loves you a great deal and puts you on something of a pedestal. However, Mars will enter Aries shortly, where it will be in the detriment of Venus. The bigger concern is that Mars will enter the fall of Saturn, which represents your baby, as Saturn rules your fifth house of children. So your husband’s bad attitude toward you will reflect negatively on your child. I am concerned that your relationship with your husband is going to get worse, not better.
The other man is likely represented by the Sun; it is in the sign of Venus, and the exaltation of the Moon, showing his deep feelings for you. You feel similarly, and we see that the Moon exalts the Sun. However, your main significator, Venus, does not appear as interested in the Sun as your emotions. The Moon will shortly enter Taurus, and exit the exaltation of the Sun altogether. I suspect that this means that your relationship with your husband may come to an end, but I am not sure that you will want a relationship with this other man. It’s as though once you have let go of the relationship with your husband, this other man will seem less appealing.
—Readers who wish to get a reading from Nina Gryphon may visit her webpage at http://www.gryphonastrology.com/astrologyreadings.html.
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