Free Astrology Advice: Horary Question - Whom Do I Really Love?

February 28th, 2007 at 5:15 pm (Free Astrology Readings)

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Horary Question:

I`m a little bit confused. I`ve been in an on-and-off relationship for one and a half years, but this relationship ended last autumn. In January, I met a man, whom I feel a strong attraction to and who seems to be very interested in me. Everything could be fine, but now that other man, which whom I broke up in autumn, has come back into my thoughts and dreams, and I feel that I may still have feelings for him. That is very confusing, and I`m not sure if I can trust in my own feelings anymore; and I need to know where I really stand emotionally. Whom do I love?

—K.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear K.,

Thanks for sending in your question – it seems so simple, but I can understand that your emotions about the situation are rather complicated. Most people want to know about the feelings of others, but it’s very true that what matters most are our own feelings, and very often, they should be examined first. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the chart is below:

I think you’re still very much smitten with your old boyfriend, but he is not particularly interested in you. We see this because Mars, ruler of your first house of self (representing you) has recently left Capricorn, where it was in the sign of Saturn, and moved into Aquarius, where it is still in the sign of Saturn. This way, we can be pretty sure that the old boyfriend is represented by Saturn. Saturn, on the other hand, is in the sign of its detriment in Leo, and it is retrograde. It is not in strong dignities of Mars, or your co-significator, the Moon. It looks as though Saturn has his own issues to deal with, and as far as he is concerned, you are out of the picture. So yes, I do think you are still in love with your old boyfriend, but that feeling is not reciprocated, nor would I expect that to change in the near future.

The new guy must then be shown by the ruler of your seventh house of partners, Venus in Aries. Since Venus is so very interested in Mars, this new guy seems highly interested in you as well. The problem is that neither of your significators, Mars and the Moon, are particularly interested in him. Neither are in strong dignities of Venus. However, we do see that the Moon will trine Venus, but without strong mutual reception by those planets, we cannot expect that this relationship will last. Again, I would expect that this is because emotionally, you are still getting over the old relationship. Even though Moon in Leo is in the detriment of Saturn, therefore showing that your emotions feel hurt or dislike the old boyfriend, the fact remains that as a personality (Mars) you are still taken with the old boyfriend, and will remain so for a while. While this is the case, you’re obviously not going to be relationship material.

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8 Comments »

  1. Goca said,

    March 1st, 2007 at 1:01 am

    Where is the chart for this question (Whom Do I Really Love?)?
    Thanks for all these examples! You are very kind person, so many question you answered for free.

    Greetings,
    Goca

  2. gryphonastrology said,

    March 1st, 2007 at 5:37 am

    Hi Goca,

    Thanks! I will post that later.

    Warmly,
    Nina

  3. Kerstin said,

    March 8th, 2007 at 8:34 am

    Hi Nina,

    thank you for the reading. I would have loved to look at the chart, (Can you still post it?), but even without the chart your reading felt very close to what I feel and fear.
    Yes, I guess I`m still in love with that guy. *sighs* It probably will take some more time to heal it.

    But I have a question concerning the significators, I always thought the ruler of the 7th house represents the long-term partner and the ruler of the 5th house the affair - why didn`t you choose those two as the significators of the two men?

    Greetings

    Kerstin

  4. gryphonastrology said,

    March 8th, 2007 at 9:23 am

    Hi Kerstin,

    Thanks for the heads up, I will need to post that. No, all our partners, one night stands, affairs, spouses, etc. are located in the 7th. The 5th house of pleasure indicates what we may *do* with them, which is an entirely different kettle of fish.

    Warmly,
    Nina

  5. amitha said,

    March 30th, 2007 at 8:47 pm

    i am in love and want to get married, pls let me know when will this marraige happen.

  6. kutuhal said,

    May 3rd, 2007 at 12:38 am

    Dear Sir,

    I want to ask about my profession. Lots of things are happening in my profession, Can you tell me about elevation/Promotion/ or some trouble in my profession in coming months.

    Thanks

    Kutuhal

  7. May said,

    September 4th, 2008 at 12:33 pm

    Dear Nina,

    Thank you for this beautiful site. I’ve learned a lot here.
    I’ve also been quite confused when it comes to dignities and planets and significators loving each other or not but your readings are starting to clear this confusion up for me. Now, I wanted to ask something concerning this loving and reception- do we look planet significators too when deciding if a planet loves another sort of speaking. If “his” ruler is in the house/sign that doesn’t particularly love “her” ruler (say- ruler of the 7th-HIM- is inVirgo while the ruler of 1st-HER- is, normaly, Saturn is it over at that point or would it be also important to see that the dispositor of his ruler is in a place of the highest Saturn/Moon/Venus dignities)?
    Hope this isn’t too confusing!

    Thanks a lot, once again!

    May

  8. Nina Gryphon said,

    September 7th, 2008 at 3:18 pm

    Hi May,

    I wouldn’t use the main sigs’ dispositors, unless they have a specified meaning in that chart. So, in a daytime chart, if the 7th house person is Saturn in Virgo, and the querent is Moon in Capricorn, then we can see that Saturn does not care for the querent too much (Saturn not in major digs of Moon), but Moon is gaga over Saturn. Their dispositors are not going to be in the picture, in general.

    Best wishes,
    Nina

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