Free Astrology Advice: Horary Question – Will We Get Back Together?
February 21, 2007 by admin
Horary Question:
Will we get back together? I’ve been looking for some answers since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up. It happened in early February, because he felt that he needed to be alone, to do everything he always did before being with me (party almost every day with his friends, no control). We began our relationship on in February 2007, we were about to have two years this month. He says our relationship was going way too seriously, and he just can’t live with it, he doesn’t want it anymore.
We were best friends for six years, and before, when we were sixteen years old, we were together for a month and he broke up with me. I feel we should stay together. I would like to know if it’s going to stay only as a desire or if it’s going to happen, so I can feel calm and remain close to him. If not, I wil have to let go forever.
—U.
Nina Gryphon:
Dear U.,
One of the challenges that you face has to do with the fact that you just don’t know how committed your boyfriend is to this relationship. And I think this is what is making you confused; he cared for you enough that he would resume your relationship after your brief fling as teenagers, but he cannot maintain a “serious” relationship. It sounds as though he does not really know what he wants, so how can you be expected to know what he wants?
This is where horary astrology can be so helpful, because it helps us understand people’s motivations far better than even they themselves can understand. I cast a horary chart for the time that I understood your question, and the horoscope for your question is below:
In the horoscope, you’re represented by Mars, ruler of the first house of self, and your co-significator is the Moon, which shows your emotions. Your boyfriend is ruled by the seventh house of partners, and its ruler, Venus in Aries. His co-significator, showing his physical/hormonal side, is the Sun. When we look at these four planets, there is a lot of dynamic stuff going on, with every planet either leaving their current sign shortly, or having just arrived in a new sign recently. This tells us that both of you are reevaluating how you feel about the other person, and reprioritizing. No wonder you feel so confused!
Mars, representing you, is currently in its exaltation in Capricorn, so you feel pretty sure of yourself and you know what you want regarding this relationship. However, Mars is about to move into Aquarius, or where it loses much of the strength it had in Capricorn. In Aquarius, Mars is going to be in the detriment of the Sun. So there is a sense that you’re going to dislike or harm the physical side of your boyfriend. What is going on with the Sun itself? The Sun was recently in its detriment in Aquarius, but it has moved into the exaltation of Venus. Venus represents your boyfriend, so there is the sense that in the relationship, he wasn’t getting his hormonal/physical needs satisfied, or thought he wasn’t, which is why he left the relationship. We noticed that the Sun and Mercury are applying to a conjunction. This can mean that there is another person on the scene vis-à-vis your boyfriend, though I would not expect that particular entanglement to last, as neither the Sun or Mercury are very interested in each other. But there may be some kind of playing around.
However, because the Sun is now in the exaltation of Venus, we see that your boyfriend’s “pants” are listening to his head much more. And what is his rational mind want? We see that Venus has recently entered the sign of Mars, which represents you. So he realizes he is in love with you after all, and you are the one for him.
So how do you feel about this whole thing? We see that the Moon is in the last degrees of Aries, which is ruled by Mars, and we see that you are recently very concerned with yourself and how you felt about the whole situation. However, the Moon is about to enter its exaltation and the sign of Venus. Shortly after it does this, the Moon will sextile the Sun, which makes me think there will be a potential for reconciliation in five somethings, I would assume days, but we could be looking at something as much as weeks or months. In any case, I do think the two of you will reconcile, because this breakup has helped both of you see how important the other person is.
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Hi Nina
could the approaching conj of Venus to the asc also show him returning to her as well as the timing possibly? I recall John Frawley saying something about ‘you can use a significator coming to a relevant house cusp if it involves someone or something physical actually coming to the person.’ I remember this from a while ago but cant remember exactly what he said.
Thank you very much Nina… you’ve enlighted the path i’m going through.
I know i can trust you as my personal astrologer, thanks again. Have a great day!
Sincerely,
U.
I know you are receiving a lot of these questions lately. I have tried to answer the question myself, but continue to struggle with the interpretation. Without going into too much detail, there has been seven years without contact with the other until recently. A friend who is going through a similar crises that I faced 8 years ago (tr pluto sextile venus) contacted me. She then actually found the person via the internet (this was a shock). My friends own situation is having me relive a lot of old emotions, especially with the brief but recent contact.
The original chart was created March 18, 2007 at (22:03) 10:03 p.m. In Pensacola, FL using 87w13 and 30n25.
I appreciate any insight you might have. The question was whether this person still loved me.
I attend a high school that is chalenging but also a private school. I’m a freshmen and am known as a social bug, but I don’t have any best friends or close friends. I either transfter to a public high school or stay at the expensive high school I’m going to now. What should I do? And how do I get an actual best/close friend? I’m nice to everyone and everybody knows me & I talk to everybody, but how do I like start a conversation? HELPL ME! And please tell me what I should do, don’t be like others who have said that the decision is all up to me & I need to figure it out myself.
One who’s going to make a decision that’ll affect the future.