Free Astrology Advice: Will My Ex Return to Me? Will I Meet Someone New?

January 26, 2007 by  

Bashful Lover

Horary Question:

My ex broke up with me in September 2006 saying that I had hurt him too much (we had been fighting a lot plus I am very reactive and emotional) and that he had other issues that he had to deal with in his life and didn’t think he could be in a relationship (his grandpa who brought him up died, he wanted to look after his two younger brothers, he said he generally felt sad about the choices he had made in his life etc., and was not sure he loved me anymore, plus he is currently in the U.S. and I am in Europe and long distance was complicating things).

I have made many efforts over the last few months to reach out to him because I love him very deeply — but to no avail. We had something very special and I am saddened that he is not interested in working to save it because together we can.

I hope that 2007 will bring some positive changes for me, that I will heal, that maybe he will open his mind to trying again. I finish my contract here in Europe and am moving to North America in March and will be much closer to him. I am really hoping to see him in March and talk to him in person. Will I get back together with my ex? If not, when will I meet someone special?



Nina Gryphon:

Dear R.,

It’s odd that your ex would not want to reconcile, especially since none of his reasons seem to have to do with you. But that is the beauty of horary astrology – it shows people’s true motivations, whether we wish to see them or not. The horary chart for your question is below:

Will We Reunite?  Horary Question

In this horoscope, you are shown by the Moon in Taurus, which shows your emotions, and Venus in Aquarius, which shows you as a personality. Since you asked about two potential partners, your ex-boyfriend and an unknown potential partner, we have to figure out who is shown by what planets. They cannot both get the seventh house of partners. Venus seems very interested in Saturn, because she is in his sign, Aquarius. Conversely, neither the Moon nor Venus are very interested in the ruler of the seventh house, Mars. As a result, I would say that Saturn represents your ex-boyfriend, while Mars represents a future partner who may come along should the ex-boyfriend not return.

Your boyfriend’s planet, Saturn, is not in good shape — it is in detriment and retrograde. Retrograde motion means that the planet seems to be moving backwards from our perspective here on earth, showing that your boyfriend may return. The only question is whether you would want somebody symbolized by Saturn in Leo back in your life. As you said, he does seem to be going through a lot right now, and even though he may wish to come back, he is really in no place to be in a relationship. Saturn is not interested in either of your significators, Venus and Moon, and this does not appear to change in the near future. So the two of you may reconcile, but I doubt it would go very far.

Venus is about to move into its exaltation, Pisces, and the sign of Jupiter. Shortly, you will not care too much whether your boyfriend comes back or not. The Moon will next square Mercury, and then will square Saturn. Here, Mercury would act as a prohibitor and it rules your second and fifth houses. Either your self-esteem is too high to be in this relationship, or you may want children, neither of which is compatible with this relationship in the near future.

I will not give a prediction as to when you will meet your next partner, because you are not ready to meet anyone right now. The Moon is in the detriment of the seventh house ruler, showing that you’re really not interested in someone else at the moment. It is also in the 12th house of self undoing, showing that you are sad right now, which does not help with your new relationship odds. Based on this chart, I would recommend seeking closure with your current relationship, and understanding that your boyfriend really needs some time to heal. While you may go so far as to actually resume your relationship (Saturn is retrograde, after all), I do not expect that it would last or be very satisfactory, because he will still be in his depressed state. The best thing to do would be for each of you to work on your own lives, so that you may move forward as healthy and whole people.

–Readers who wish to get a reading from Nina Gryphon may do so via the astrology readings webpage.


7 Responses to “Free Astrology Advice: Will My Ex Return to Me? Will I Meet Someone New?”

  1. Ramsy on May 20th, 2007 12:40 pm

    Dear Nina,
    Thank you for your reading. I am writing 4 months later to tell you what happened…You were right! 🙂

    In February, just a few weeks before I was going to leave Europe for North America, I got involved with a dear friend — very soon, my ex ceased to matter. However, my friend is married (has been separated from his wife for a while but is not ready yet to take the big step to get a divorce!). This connection was short-term and once I moved, he came to visit me a couple of times — this connection was much more powerful than anything I had with my ex.

    Talking about a next relationship that would come my way, you had said: ‘Either your self-esteem is too high to be in this relationship, or you may want children, neither of which is compatible with this relationship in the near future.’ Absolutely — I decided to end this connection with my dear friend a month or so ago because my self-esteem was too high to play second fiddle and I totally am looking for a relationship which will lead to commitment and children — I want to send the right energies to the universe and hence decided not to continue.

    Anyways, I think you’re doing some wonderful work guiding people and I wish you well.

    I would love to get a personal consultation with you. Do you do phone conversations at all Will you tell me what would be the best way to do this?
    Now that I have cleared out a lot of cobwebs, I see myself becoming ready to invest in something new in the summer — will that fruitful relationship come my way this summer?

  2. gryphonastrology on May 21st, 2007 6:18 pm

    Dear Ramsy,

    That is so interesting! I appreciate your following up – it’s one thing reading it in the chart, in the abstract, and quite another seeing how events play out in real life.

    If you are interested in a reading, send me an email, and let me know what kind of reading you would like.

    Thanks again for writing to me.


  3. Selena on July 11th, 2007 1:48 pm

    Will he come back to me ?

  4. tanya on September 18th, 2008 6:01 am

    will i get back with the father of my daughter and does he still love me

  5. Ashu bhatia on August 12th, 2018 10:23 am

    Will my husband who’s getting divorced this month ever come to me

  6. sri on October 24th, 2018 12:19 pm

    wil my ex return will i get marry with him breakup happen in jan2018 am still waiting please give prediction

  7. Smita Patankar on January 27th, 2019 2:27 am

    Will my ex boyfriend come back to me and marry me?

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