Free Astrology Advice: Horary Astrology – Will My Boyfriend Return to Me?
December 11, 2006 by admin
Question:
My boyfriend broke up with me via text message last night after an argument. For the last month or so, we have been butting heads often, mostly over time, or the lack of or over calling, or not calling. He has met my parents, shopped with my mother & I, met my cousins ( I have a huge family), met my grandmother, fixed stuff all around her house. I assumed nothing, except that everything he said to me was the truth. He spoke of marriage, moving in together, wanting babies, wanting to appreciate me, blah, blah, blah. He called constantly daily & nightly for months.
I am 25 and a graduate student, no kids, never married, and (not tooting my own horn, but just going off of others’ comments) very, very pretty and very curvy, appealing figure. He is 22 and is an aspiring business entrepreneur, has one son that is 18 months old, and never married his son’s mother who is 21, but they all lived together for a few months. They broke up when the baby was 2 months old.
My heart is crushed & I feel weak which is not a feeling I’m used to. I’m finding it hard to concentrate because all I keep thinking is, “How could you be so stupid!” Will we get back together, or should I move on?
—D.
Nina Gryphon:
Dear D.,
Your situation sounds difficult, and it’s obvious that you are still very attached to him. Since you broke up so recently, I am sure that the situation is not beyond repair. I do find it kind of…unpleasant that he broke up with you via text message.
Below is the horary chart for your question. Horary astrology, which is the technique I use on this blog (and in my practice) to answer questions, is an ancient method used to cast horoscopes for the moment of a question. It is the birth chart of one’s question, and the answer is contained therein.
You are shown by Mars and he is shown by Venus. Mars is in Libra, the Sun ruled by Venus, so we can see that you are extremely interested in him. However, there is also another subtext here; you are in love with him because you are not quite content with yourself or are attracted to bad boys. This is not exactly the most healthy dynamic. I suspect that the reason that you two had difficulties in your relationship was connected to his son. Venus, your boyfriend’s planet, is in his fifth house of children, and as a result, Venus is in the sign of its fall. In other words, he cannot give you the affection you need because he is spending so much time and energy on his child.
His masculine side, or his physical side, is shown by the Sun, which is in Libra, where it is in its fall. He is clearly not giving you the attention you crave. So will you get back together? I think you will, but I do not think that it will last. The Moon, your co-significator, is in Sagittarius, where it is in the detriment of Mercury. It will shortly sextile the Sun, but the two planets are not that interested in one another. This is not the stuff of lasting relationships. You may come to some kind of uneasy truce about him spending less time with his son and more time with you. However, I do not think that you can maintain that state. His planet, Venus, is about to move into its own sign, so we can see that he is going to get into his comfort zone, but Libra is also the detriment of Mars, so this will be at your expense. Frankly, based on how the chart shows him, I am not very enthusiastic about him, and feel that you could do better.
—Readers who are interested in a private consultation with Nina may contact her at nina@gryphonastrology.com.
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As supporting testimony to the above, the Part of Marriage, which is useful for any relationship, is at 18 Gemini. Mercury is the significator of the relationship as an entity. It is in the querent’s 12th house, her undoing, her secret enemy; plus Mercury in Libra is ‘controlled’ by Venus (him). He is calling the shots here and was the one who ended it. Mercury is on the benefic star Spica which might suggest that, as Nina said, he may return temporarily. The benevolence of Spica isnt enough to overcome the other negative testimonies though. I dont have my copy of Robson with me right now (I’m not at home) so I dont know what else it might mean here.
regards
G.
Dear Gary,
Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I am inclined to see Mercury as the child in my efforts to keep the Arabian Parts to a minimum. Either way, I do agree with you that this is not a relationship worth returning to.
Warmly,
Nina