Free Astrology Advice – Horary Astrology: Will I Marry and When?

October 3, 2006 by  

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Question:

I have been looking to get married for the last eight years but my issues have been to find the right guy. When I felt I found him, he disappeared. Please help me and tell me about when I will get married, and the quality of the marriage.

—H.

Nina Gryphon:

Dear H.,

As you may well imagine, I get a number of questions asking “when will I get married?” However, people sometimes forget that we need to see in the chart whether they will get married at all, so that is the question will need to address first of all. First, of course, we have to take common sense into account; since you’re about 30 years old, the odds are quite favorable that you will marry. So unless the chart shows very clearly you will never marry, the playing field is tilted toward you, as it were.

I cast a horoscope for the time I understood your question, and will analyze your question using horary astrology, an ancient astrological technique whereby we can find the answer in the chart for the time the question was asked. Incidentally, this was the preferred method of consulting astrologers throughout at least the last 2500 years. Most likely, this is because the expense of doing a complete natal workup was too high for most people (no computers!), and also because many people did not know their birth times, and perhaps not even their exact birth dates.

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To see whether you will marry, we would look for particularly unfavorable testimony. It would take a lot of negative indications for us to determine the you will never get married; and indeed, there is nothing in this chart that severely afflicts your odds. We don’t see major afflictions by the Sun (which destroys by the excess of heat), or by Saturn (which destroys by the excess of cold), so we can assume that you will someday get married.

That said, I also do not see an immediate testimony of marriage. I do see that you’re heartbroken, however, and are trying to recover from a past disappointment. Needless to say, this is hardly a state in which one is highly appealing to potential marriage partners. When we look at your emotional state, symbolized by the Moon in Gemini, we see it has just separated from a square to the Sun in Virgo. Since the Sun is the natural ruler of men, we can see that there was some kind of tension (square aspect) between you and a suitor. Both the Moon and the Sun are in barren signs, Gemini and Virgo, which is one testimony that this relationship did not lead to marriage. Both the Moon and the Sun are in signs ruled by Mercury, which symbolizes you as a person in his horoscope, so you controlled this relationship. Unfortunately, Mercury is in Libra, where it is in the fall of the Sun. Very recently, Mercury moved into Libra from Virgo; you were quite happy with this relationship when it was happening, but you were also heavily into yourself and your own needs (Mercury was in its own sign), which may have led to the end of the relationship. Currently, as Mercury is in the fall of the Sun, you are obviously quite disappointed and upset with the man who refused to marry you.

You are also symbolized by Venus, which is your urge to find a mate. Venus is in its fall in Virgo, and therefore you are obviously currently in no state to find a husband. As a whole, we can see very clearly in the chart that you’re still licking your wounds from the previous disappointment. Therefore, there is no marriage in the immediate future. This does not mean, of course, that you will not get married; I am sure that you will. However, it looks as though it will take you about eight months from the time of the question (in mid-September) to get your bearings back, and only then I would start thinking about pursuing marriage. I would, if I were you, re-examine the question astrologically then.

You will notice that Venus is about to sextile Jupiter in about 5 degrees. Jupiter rules the seventh house, showing your potential husband. Normally, a contact between your planet and that of the husband, might indicate marriage, and show its timing. The difficulty here is that Venus and Jupiter are in a very bad mutual reception; Venus is in the detriment of Jupiter, while Jupiter is in the detriment of Venus. So there will be an opportunity for marriage in about five months, but nothing will come of it, as neither of you is in a place in your lives to get married.

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  1. giancarlo scaroni on March 7th, 2009 10:08 am

    I am depressed, please help me what to do

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